Hold your head high, heavy heart.

A word to my blog-words,

Image. Image is unfortunatley everything to most people - the way you appear on the outside dictates how people see you. We would all like to think we don't judge people based on their outward appearences but it is just the way our minds work. Without knowing someone for who they really are, their image is all you can base a first impression on. I was on facebook with hannah the other night and we came across a girl that can accuratley be described as a "slam pig", but that was my initial reaction because of the way this girl portrayed herself to the world. It actually irritates me when people create this "awesome" image of themselves and then don't bother to think about how other people might see them because of it. The world unfortunatley is not free of judgement and although it may seem like what other people think doesn't matter, it does to a certain extent. People too stubborn to see that piss me off - because ultimatley the way other people see you determines how you make it in the world, especially when it comes to jobs. What respectable boss is going to want to hire a girl who lists some of her intrests as - being sassy, blunts, $$$, 80's hair metal, not givin a shit, and drinkin' ? I wouldn't.
I'm all for being a free spirit -everybody has experienced different things in life, but sometimes people like this get on my nerves, especially when it comes to their strong reactions to people judging them. If you didn't want people to call you a whore, you wouldn't wear shorts that show your ass cheeks and push your boobs up to your chin, dumbass. People like this make it hard for me to turn off that part of my brain that judges and try and view them as decent people. I'm sure i've been judged before ("look at that girl.. going for seconds, OF COURSE") and I wouldn't want to be but at least I have redeeming qualities. This blog goes out to the slutty whore whose facebook inspired me to write it - please put some clothes on. Anyways, I'm writing this partially because she pissed me off, and partially because I've been thinking a lot about image lately and how I portray myself - I'm going to work on it.